Tasmanian Times

The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. No price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche

The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. No price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche


Whose victory was it that the MPs were celebrating … ?

With a truly wonderful outpouring of emotion at 5.58pm Friday evening at that moment the parliament erupted in what I’m sure was the most a heartfelt joy ever expressed in the chamber of the new parliament house. It was so good to watch. It would have been nice to have been there, but would it? Whose victory was it that the MPs were celebrating?

The applause and cheers were instantaneous, a rainbow flag was unfurled, there were tears of joy and singing from the public gallery for all the world to see. And I hope that the world did see our joy our happiness and our long awaited victory, victory over prejudice, a victory over hate and a victory for every gay and lesbian person who didn’t live to see the day.

From the floor of the house the MPs moved to mix and share their happiness with the waiting crowds and the media. Speeches followed … it seemed to me that almost everyone wanted their moment in the joyous rays of a new and oh so queer sun.

From watching TV last night and again this morning you might be forgiven for thinking that the war for SSM was won by men in $3000 dollar Italian suits and Hermes silk ties, gay men and women who live in some of the wealthiest and most fashionable suburbs in Australia and represent these suburbs in parliament. In fact, it’s now fashionable to have a queer MP especially it seems a queer Liberal MP or, if it isn’t, I’m sure that it soon will be.

The new leaders of the LGBTI community were it seems all high-profile figures who were staring into cameras and telling us how wonderful this day was and how long they had fought and dreamed of this day. No doubt for a few this was true, just how many? I could not help thinking that far too many were like Johnny latecomers to the fight and who were now milking a victory that was not theirs in the hope that it will enhance their careers. I hope I’m wrong but I fear I am not.

Where were those brave 78’s? Where were the men who had their lives ruined and who went to jail for daring to love and be loved differently? Where were the dykes on bikes?

Where the families of the men who were thrown off cliffs and into rivers; beaten and bruised by thugs who thought that poofter bashing was a good way to end a night’s drinking in the 1960s?

Where were the widowers whose partners died premature deaths in the early 1980s? Where the gaunt grey faces that looked up from hospital beds in the vain sad hope that their parents, siblings, family would visit them one last time before they too died.

Where were the families of the hundreds of young gay men who took their own lives having been thrown out of their homes, of the young women who self harmed in bedsits and psychiatric hospitals? Where the victims of the churches so called conversion therapy? Where were the victims of the schoolyard and workplace bullies?

Where were the victims of the streets, of the drug overdoses? Where were the gay victims and their friends, their families’ the thousands of victims of the years of rejection, hate, intolerance, prejudice, brutal bashings and violent death?

If I didn’t see the victims and their families I certainly didn’t see anyone who even came close to fitting the old gay stereotypes, a gay gathering without a camp man, a drag queen or Tom of Finland fan, a bear or two I don’t think so. Didn’t anyone think to invite them? If not, why not? Boring!

Of course no one invited the one’s who dared break the rules or the gays who lived their lives on the edge they are now consigned to history. Clearly last night was for the new queers the rainbow loves the nice folk those who went to good schools, have good well-paying jobs, those who wear expensive clothes and Rolex watches. The gay alumni of Melbourne or Sydney Universities law and medical schools?

Oh how wonderful it is that Peter and Tony can propose and declare the love that once was that well of loneliness on tonight’s evening news. How wonderful is it that Caroline and Stephanie can finally get married and make a home together in Toorak or Balmoral Beach or without having to feel they aren’t being discriminated against at home or on their honeymoon in the South of France. Is this what the 78s marched and were jailed for is that to be their lasting legacy, I hope not?

*David Chadwick a bio is on its way

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  1. Robin Charles Halton

    December 13, 2017 at 12:32 am

    SMM was the easy one for the Federal government give or take a few religious organisations and Tony’s followers being in shock denial.

    Overall its was party time politics and a feel good for Turnbull who had been lagging in the polls for the Coalition.

    I would guess it was the sense of legislating the rights of gay couples that is now a part of societies expectations!

    As #1 Invicta puts it the real “dreary” business of unaffordable housing and skyrocketing energy prices should take precedence!

    The out fall of the Dastyari rodent’s bouts of national treachery will result in the nation demanding why average Australians are being left out in the cold over foreigners in this case an “alien” nation such as China which is a Communist country being able to buy out our real estate and at the same time give rise to increasing their chances of immigration to Australia just because they have money and are prepared to pay above the heads of Australian couples struggling to obtain their first home.

    One of the biggest issues facing Australia at present is whose county is it, China’s or ours!

    PM Turnbull if he is to succeed during his term in office has to turn the tables on foreign ownership rules, taking into account the deals set in place with China free Trade through Andrew Robb who exited government in a great hurry to take up a position with the Chinese government and other former political figures now relishing on the influence of China over Australia such as Kevin Rudd.

    In my opinion the return of the lease of industrial Port of Darwin would be the first measure to bring back under Australian control otherwise I am sure China would object if Australia and our US partners decided to take a part of the port for military purposes.
    And that is a likely scenario as China builds up its power over the South China Sea.

    As the next Federal election draws closer by the day, every day Australians are going to ask why they are being left behind with unaffordable housing, job insecurity due to foreign take overs, and out of control energy pricing and so on it goes!

    Its understandable wages have flat lined, the economy cannot withstand wages rises nor should company directors and parliamentarians be accepting any more either, more likey time to pull in the purse strings and forgo all the shopping sprees on overpriced junk that is totally unnecessary.

  2. Invicta

    December 9, 2017 at 3:51 pm

    And while the men in fancy suits and ties are declaring their love on the floor of the house, and thumping each other on the back in the throes of congratulatory joy, two other groups are quietly celebrating behind the scenes.

    Wedding industry vendors are rubbing their hands together in glee at the sudden windfall, as are the country’s divorce lawyers. The latter may have to wait a little for their financial bonanza, but it’s coming. After all, leaving a legal marriage means getting a legal divorce.

    It’s ridiculous that something which should have been legislated in the normal course of government business – that is, representing the will of the majority of constituents – turned into a crazed three-ring circus and allowed some of the worst examples of self-aggrandisement ever seen in politics.

    We might be on a rainbow high right now, but when the dust settles and we get back to the dreary business of unaffordable housing, and skyrocketing energy prices, and flatlining real wages growth, community spirit will take a huge beating.

    The government is probably planning its next distraction as we speak.

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